Sunday, August 24, 2008

Live from the Village

Geez, the longer you stay away from blogging, the harder it is to return, eh? We're finally all settled in here at my parents' house, but I've found it difficult to get back into the blogging groove. I just don't have the computer time I used to, and my blogging alter ego (uh, Rimarama) has been uncharacteristically quiet here. It's like all she wants to do is eat popsicles, run through the sprinkler, and read Nancy Drew mysteries.

But the transition from hut to ancestral suburban three bedroom ranch has not been nearly as difficult as I'd expected. I don't want to jinx things, but so far, living here has been almost downright fun-ish. The kids cannot believe their luck at scoring a neverending sleepover, and I'm finding that it's true what they say about it taking a village to raise a child.

In the village, there is always someone around to talk with, lend a hand, help keep an eye on the kids. On the other hand, privacy is scarce and it can be more difficult to keep track of your offspring/keep your offspring on track here in the home of the bottomless sippy cup and never shrinking stash of Rolos doled out by my dad via the secret candy handoff technique.

However, the P-Dawg and I have been enjoying perks such as nightly walks together after J-dog and V-meister have gone to bed, as well as the occasional evening out on the town. The witching/dinner hour is not nearly as bad when you only have to cook every third night and someone else watches your kids while you do it. As an added bonus, my mom has been going in to get the J-dog when he wakes up at the crack of dawn, allowing me - notorious for my morning bee-otchiness - the luxury of an extra fifteen minutes of sleep and a cup of coffee before facing my fellow villagers.

Of course, there's no swearing or cable TV in the village, and you can't just walk around the house in your underwear, if that's the sort of thing you are inclined to do. And although there is high speed internet, trying to post a blog entry feels a lot like web surfing on company time back in the cubicle days, always with the cursor hovering above the minimize key and the heart racing in fear of being discovered.

But with each day that is neurotically crossed off the calendar, I have increased confidence that we will make it to October and our new house intact. Although we might have to sacrifice some of our baby teeth.

19 comments:

MamaGeek @ Works For Us said...

Rima, that sounds down-right delightful. Maybe you should just rent out the basement and be done with all this moving stuff already? :)

You're missed. Enjoy it!

Marmite Breath said...

Yay, Woman! I'm so pleased that things are working out for you. I wouldn't mind living with my parents either. It's nice having help.

That said, does your Dad want me to come and help eat Rolos? I only offer to be helpful. It must be difficult for your poor kids.

Becca said...

Yup. When we were living with my parents I heard someone bumping around in the kitchen one morning and, assuming it was Ryan, dashed down there in my jeans and bra to grab a shirt out of the dryer. It was my dad. Thank goodness it was one of my nun bras. But the part about them helping out with the kiddos? Worth it.

AJU5's Mom said...

Glad everything is working out! I am looking forward to our Thanksgiving trip to the in-laws for just the reasons you mentioned - babysitting at all hours!

painted maypole said...

but at least the tooth fairy will know where to find you.

i always love hanging at my parents because of that extra help with MQ. My hubby just doesn't get it, but that could be because he somehow manages to take afternoon naps and read for hours on end even at home. oh right, that's because I'm on constant child duty.

flutter said...

Rima, is that YOU?!?

Anonymous said...

It's great that you get time alone with your hubby, and I know from experience how wonderful it is to have someone else get up with the little one. Good to hear from you!!

Anonymous said...

I was wondering when you were going to write again.

Knot

Kat said...

It does sound like fun. Although I think I would loose it from the lack of privacy. This girl needs some major space! ;)

Anonymous said...

I cringe at the thought of moving back home but I'm glad it's working for you! Although someone else to get up with the babies sounds like heaven on earth right about now...

Vodka Mom said...

You're back??? I drank your martini because you never showed up. Wait, i'll mix up some fresh ones!!!!
woo-hoo

tracey.becker1@gmail.com said...

Well good luck on a continued lovely stay! Glad it's going so well.

Jenna said...

I've lived in a village once, but that was before kids. I had a love/hate relationship with it. Thanks for the update.

JCK said...

You are making it seem rather delightful. So glad it is going well and always special time with the grandparents.

The talk of having the cursor ready on the minimizer key in fear of discovery gave me a good chuckle. Although I wasn't blogging at the time, I occasionally...not ADMITTING to anything here, occasionally worked on some PERSONAL projects whilst at the work place...

Karen MEG said...

Good to hear that things have settled in ... it is a bonus, isn't it, to be able to have alone time? We moved in with my folks last year for 3 weeks during our reno, and had our first impromptu movie date in about 10 years. Pathetic.

Hey, we're this close to September and October will be here before you know it. In the meantime, enjoy...

PS: glad to see you back ;)

Skiplovey said...

When you guys move out, can we move in? Your parents sound awesome! Makes me wish my folks were a little closer (well on second thought, not that close).

zdoodlebub said...

I get stressed and sleep-deprived when staying with relatives (parents) for a one week period. I'm sooo glad to hear that things are going well. And that you're not me.

justmylife said...

I love staying with my parents a few days, then it isn't as fun. Glad all is working out and enjoy your mini-vacation.

Claire B. said...

Good luck with all that family togetherness. Hope you look back with fond memories of it. Life is short, parents get old and one day aren't here anymore. (Can you tell I'm psyching myself up for a visit with BOTH sets of 'rents in Oct?)